urban-muse

nothing is ever straight forward April 11, 2006

The thing that i don’t understand is, why do some people make bit deals out of the smallest, most trivial of things when other people just taken them in their stride and get on with it. I’m finding this more apparant with the wedding day finally looming and in my daily life recently, which is tending to cause an unbelieveable amount of un-necessary stress.
Example-> Ian & I have enough on our plate at the moment with just 3 weeks to the wedding – why, therefore are people trying to make even more work for us and make big deals over small things. I’ve smiled and absorbed it all in up to now but I’m pretty certain that won’t last for ever and I’d hate to be in the same room as me when I finally loose my patience… which could actually end up being on the wedding day if it carries on niggling me. I’m feel like I’m/we’re not being helped but hindered with everything and all this interferring is seriously trying my patience.
Oh and then there’s those people to speak badly of your good friends to your face… I really don’t appreciate this and in such cases, I think it’s best to keep some opinions to oneself especially when they are unjustified. How awkward these comments make others feel seemingly is of no concern to the person who is doing the bitching. It’s totally un-necessary and unfair to say such things and things like this really piss me off. Just because these people know you well, they think they have the licence to be so rude.